Happy Mother’s Day 🌸

I know I’m late, but happy Mother’s Day to all the women who have ever carried a child. 🤱🏾🤰🏻👩🏼‍🍼👼🏽

Mother’s Day is a great day to honor yourself. Honor yourself in ways you may not have thought you deserved.

In the photo, that is a painting I drew for my daughter and I to paint for my mom today.  (The painting loooks nothing like the drawing LOL) as the painting got worse and worse in my eyes, it was still very much beautiful because it’s something we created with love.

I want you to think of that everytime you are being harsh towards yourself or when you’re trying to hurry up and bounce back after childbirth. Yes, you may have changed but you’re even more beautiful now than you were before! Now your body has another emotional, and spiritual story to tell. So instead of doing everything except resting after becoming postpartum, rest. Rest because your body is counting on you to survive. Women in the indigenous/ black community have an increased chance of mortality after childbirth than any other community of people. They don’t talk about it much but a lot of women meet their demise because they would not allow them selves to be nurtured, or they didn’t have that type of of support system and they never gave their body a chance to catch up and reboot. Instead the body is forced deeper into high blood pressure, clots, organ failure and much more.

Sista REST!  Share your birth story to help other moms overcome or even feel accepted and validated after the “little” things affected her healing.

For mothers who have experienced a different type of heartache.

For mothers who have carried a baby but didn’t get to watch the baby grow, you are worthy of your flowers today. You are deserving of having Love Poured into you today. If you did not receive the love that was offered to you today, you owe it to yourself tomorrow or sometime this week to validate your feelings and accept without same you are too a mom.

Starting June 21st and then July 27th and August 23rd  join me at the Saha Wellness Center for 1 hour of birth Trauma or birth debriefing and then 1 hour of connecting with your Loss experience. These classes are being held by non profit. They are $15 or donation based and go towards the non profit. Link below.  The event is listed on Torisaun Shiniecey Website